If we carry around our wounds, rigid in our belief systems of how they came and why, we are closing the door on further answers about them to come through.
We all think we know why, but what if there’s more to the story than we know? And what if just by changing our perspective on our wounds, we can sleep better at night? By changing our perspective, we simply accept that there may be more to the story than we realize. There may have been a lesson we needed to learn for our own spiritual growth, or perhaps the one who did us wrong was unconsciously motivated by something that happened in his or her past – which we’ll never know – so it’s best just to let go. Maybe it’s simply an opportunity to practice forgiveness.
Whenever we seek out healing, we are answered; just as when we pray we are answered. “When ye seek ye shall find.” Though it may take some time to see your prayers be answered, or understand on a deeper level what went on, it is worth the time it takes to ask for help. For when you do, you are asking to have your perspective changed – in any way that it needs to – in order for you to have more peace. This is the whole point of changing your perspective on your wounds: to feel better; to have that release from your past that’s been holding you back. You don’t have to understand it, you just have to ask for a change of heart, and if you’re truly ready, that change will come.